Okay, going to word this from my point of view, as the spankee, but spankers just look at it from your side, okay?
After a chat, got to thinking, what Do I really like better, after a spanking (and doesn't matter if good girl or punishment....) and any adult style 'aftercare'?
Do you like spooning with them? Your hot bottom pressed back into their belly, and thighs, as they hold you all nice and safe?
Or, do you prefer facing them, your head in their shoulder, their hand now free to easily roam up and down your side, over your waist, back up to the swell of your hip, rubbing and patting your bottom?
My problem is I'm greedy, I want it all, and at the same time, and right now...
However, if I had to pick, I'm going with facing him, as I love his hand sliding over me....
So, how about you guys?
don't be shy. And, my other question about birth order is still open as well.
18 hours ago